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March 31, 2008

Flirting by Text Message, Indians Test Social Limits

Text messages have become an integral part of courtships in many countries. But SMS is proving particularly revolutionary in India, where it is paving a way for the young to maneuver around deep-rooted barriers to premarital mingling.

... Because many young Indians will marry only someone their parents approve of, and in some cases choose, much of this text messaging is recreational.

[via The New York Times]

emily | 9:42 AM | permalink

December 5, 2007

Mobile Dating in London Bars

gI_gno2d.jpg.jpg ICE brkr brings a brand new approach to dating.

Their mobile dating application lets you send a friendly message to someone you find attractive in a bar. And if a nice message comes back you both get together immediately for a chat.

[Press release]

emily | 10:11 AM | permalink

July 30, 2007

match.com mobile

The leading online dating site match.com - with over 15 million subscribers - has a mobile version.

match.com mobile enables mobile users to connect anonymously with singles nearby. [via the Associated Press]

emily | 5:48 PM | permalink

July 9, 2007

MeetMoi

meethomebanner.jpg MeetMoi turns your cellphone into your own personal matchmaker, enabling you to meet texty singles wherever you go. [via Smart Mobs]

How does it work? First complete an online profile about yourself and who you want to meet. Then, open your phone and text your location to 94810.

At this point, you will become available to MeetMoi members in your area. If your interests overlap, your profile will be sent to their phones, and at the same time, you will receive their profiles on your phone.

The next step is to search through those profiles and find someone you like. When you do, you can send an anonymous chat through the MeetMoi gateway. "

Are there testimonials? Not yet, but to illustrate a point, they made one up. Check them out!

emily | 8:23 PM | permalink

April 2, 2007

Crush or Flush: Hot or Not for Mobile Phones

crush_1.jpg On Monday, a wireless startup from Seattle called IceBreaker (run by some ex-Microsofties) will launch Crush or Flush - a mobile version of Hot or Not, with an added twist. Business2.0 reports.

"On your cell phone, you can cycle through pictures of men and women and either "crush" them or "flush" them. You can search by location or by some of the self-describing tags people put on their profiles. If two people crush each other, they both get a text message inviting them to chat with each other anonymously (via text, for now—with anonymous voice calling in the works). "

emily | 8:02 AM | permalink

February 14, 2007

High-Tech Breakups Are Quick But Inflict a Special Pain

Almost one in 10 cellphone users age 18 to 34 have "texted" someone out of their romantic lives, according to a survey released this week by Virgin Mobile USA. That stat doesn't even include emailed kiss-offs.

[via The Wall Street Journal]

emily | 8:22 AM | permalink

February 10, 2007

Say It With Txt

imloveletters.gif Digital love letters are easy to send, but hard to cherish, writes the WSJ.

"Love letters aren't what they used to be. While young correspondents have committed their deepest feelings to paper for centuries, the latest generation of lovers is coming of age along with new technologies that let them court each other on the run.

The passionate essays penned on Valentine's Days past have morphed into bursts of instant-message affection. Confessions once sealed in envelopes are now dashed off in email.

... The immediacy of high-tech love letters can be exhilarating; there's no waiting for a ship to cross an ocean with news that someone finds you irresistible. However, while older generations have treasured handwritten love letters wrapped in ribbons, many of today's young romantics will end up with little tangible proof that anyone ever cared about them. Unsaved emails disappear. Text messages are gone forever if a cellphone breaks or gets lost."

Read Love's Labors Not Lost, Just Kept in the Closet

Go see it if it comes to your part of town, a wonderful and moving play called Love Letters, by A.R. Gurney. "Nominated for the Pulitzer Prize for Drama, it centers on two characters, Melissa Gardner and Andrew Makepiece Ladd III. Using the epistolary form sometimes found in novels, they sit side by side at tables and read the correspondence - in which they discuss their hopes and ambitions, dreams and disappointments, and victories and defeats - that has passed between them throughout their lives. It is only at the end that they both realize they were really love letters at their core. "

emily | 8:56 AM | permalink

February 9, 2007

AT&T reveals results of annual study on wireless courtesy and dating

782.jpeg For the fourth year, Cingular Wireless, part of the new AT&T, has commissioned a survey of adult cell phone users to determine how cell phones have affected their romantic lives. Some findings from the survey:

-- Thirty-eight percent of respondents said that a date answered his or her wireless phone in the midst of a great dinner conversation while 31 percent said they had done the same

-- Twenty-eight percent have used text messaging to avoid long conversations

-- Seventeen percent reported that a wireless phone has saved them from an uncomfortable date

-- Twelve percent have used text messaging news as a conversation starter with a date or mate

-- Eight percent of respondents say they have ended a relationship over rude/offensive wireless behavior

-- Five percent of respondents have called someone else he or she was interested in from a wireless phone while on a date and seven percent reported that their date had done so

-- Six percent have judged a prospective date by the phone they use

Also significant in the survey results, 59 percent of active daters use text messaging to communicate with their dates, while only 30 percent of those who are married.

[Press release]

emily | 6:23 PM | permalink

January 29, 2007

PartyStrands links real and virtual world partying

partystrandsred.gif USA Today writes up partyStrands - "which gives people a new way to use their cellphones to interact with nightclub entertainment systems and each other.

By sending a text message with their favorite recording artist, they immediately begin to influence the music selection as the club's DJ or computer-based sound system works the newcomer's chosen singers into the mix. Each user's "party name" appears on video monitors around the bar, along with an avatar icon and, if they choose, an Internet link to their personal MySpace or Facebook page."

Previously: - Influencing a music festival by SMS

emily | 2:37 PM | permalink

January 9, 2007

"Nurse" bleeds lonely hearts with flirty SMS

ghtynurse.gif A Chinese company has duped about 400,000 people by creating the character of a young female nurse to solicit text messages and collect revenue from lonely men, reports Reuters.

"The Beijing-based company employed a team of 12 or 13 people -- mostly men -- to act as "Wang Jing", a 22-year-old nurse who would invite mobile phone users to become her online boyfriend and to seek her out "whenever they felt lonely", the Beijing News said.

"Yang", who would receive up to 2,000 text messages from people all over China in a single shift, said the nurse scam had reaped hundreds of thousands of yuan a month, a Chinese newspaper reported.

... Text message scams and unsolicited spam flogging everything from real estate to weapons are common in China, where telecommunication service providers allow companies to bombard mobile phones for a cut of the profits."

Insight on "SMS Sex Chat" services in a Wired article posted yesterday: Backstage With a Text Actress

emily | 9:32 AM | permalink

November 16, 2006

Crush or Flush2: new social mobile dating service

crushorflushlogo.jpg GigaOM writes up a new mobile social dating service called Crush or Flush2 created by software company Ice Breaker, due to launch next Monday.

Crush or Flush2 is a mobile dating application that lets users choose between photos of propsective dates that are either “crush” worthy or “flushable”.

Crush or Flush lets you flirt, chat, and meet new people while you are on the go. It’s fun, easy to use, and there’s nothing else like it. You can chat people up, or just check people out and hook up your friends using your mobile phone or your computer (PC or Mac).

emily | 8:01 AM | permalink

September 19, 2006

Virgin Mobile to Launch Text Message 'Dating' Game

indextexting.jpg According to the WSJ, Virgin Mobile USA is set to announce today the launch of a dating text message game that allow its customers to test if they have the right moves in approaching others for romance.

"The game, developed by Vibes Media, puts players on a virtual date where they respond to questions and react to situations.

For example, if a female player is losing momentum, the response might be, "C'mon, throw him a bone once in a while -- the poor guy can't tell if u like him or NOT." Then she will receive a message with several choices. Each text message choice brings the player one step closer to getting a virtual date, or striking out."

emily | 11:42 AM | permalink

August 21, 2006

Don’t tell a lie on your mobile phone

Another lie detecting technology scheme for cell phones, to help lovers find out if feelings are true. From KTF. Telecoms Korea reports.

"Korean mobile opeprator KTF is launching a "hierarchical voice leading analysis service in association with Seoul based start-up EGTEK."

According to KTF, "the technology was used by the Israeli intelligence agency MOSSAD and this is the first time that the anti-terrorism technology was applied to mobile entertainment service. " This must be another version of a similar service luanched in 2004 (?) because it reads just like it:

"The “Love Detector” service analyzes the voice of caller and informs users of the level of affection in the voice. After ending the phone conversation, the user is informed by MMS of how much the other enjoyed, focused or got embarrassed during the conversation.

“Truth in Calls” service lets users know whether the other is telling a lie. Users also receive the results of trust level and stress level of the person he or she talked to on the phone. "

Related articles:

-- Mobile phones as lie detectors - KTF, a Korean wireless service provider, launched a service in August of this year, that detects emotions in a speaker's voice.

-- Nokia smartphones as lie detectors - A new application from AgileMobile.com for smartphones such as the Nokia 7650, 3650 and 6600, turns these into portable lie detectors. The company behind it says it's for entertaiment purposes only

emily | 3:25 PM | permalink

August 4, 2006

New UK Service Matches People Via Mobile Phone

8crushhh.jpgA new site called YourMyCrush.com allows mobile phone users to find out if the person that they admire feels the same way about them through an anonymous means.

A user who has a crush on someone will come to the site and fill in the details of their ‘crush’ including their mobile number. The ‘crush’ will get a n SMS letting them know that someone fancies them, directing them to the website. The ‘crush’ goes to the site and enters the details of the person that they hope it is, once again this includes a mobile number. The system then checks the details against all the original crushes already sent from the site, if there is a match it lets both people know and helps suggest ways in which to start their new relationship.

If YourMyCrush.com does not detect a match then it will send on the new crush to the new person, at this point the cycle continues once again.

The service is presently limited to UK mobile phone networks but will shortly be providing access to other countries in Europe and the rest of the world.
[press release]

Regine | 9:59 AM | permalink

May 9, 2006

Love Detector

lovedet.jpg
Love Detetor A new cellphone service in Turkey, Hungary, and the UK allows callers to determine whether they're speaking to loves them, reports Gizmodo.

In their own words:

"During the call, our server will monitor the excitement levels and other related parameters your friend is demonstrating, and will calculate the "Love-Level" as detected in the conversation. Once the conversation has ended, the final report will be sent to your cellular phone using SMS or audio message! The final report is not only about the "Love-Level", and includes other parameters, like "Concentration", "Embarrassment" and even "Anticipation"."

emily | 7:33 AM | permalink

April 30, 2006

Bluedating

londontube.gif Aljazeera reports on "Bluedating", or strangers on trains sending each other messages via bluetooth in order to possibly meet up. Al Jazzera reporter, Sakhr al-Makhadhi, interviews some people and gives it a shot.

"Self-confessed bluedating-queen Mammy Kufuor says it is a no-risk way of finding a partner: "It's quite a safe way to meet people, you can normally see them straight away, so if you don’t like them, there’s no damage done." ... she says it is a growing phenomenon. "I've had quite a few people bluetooth me without me bluetoothing them, all over the country," says the 22-year old. "It's spreading quite quickly, I’m not sure where it started or who started it, but it's one of those word-of-mouth things.

The BBC among many other papers reported on "Bluetoothing in 2004. It was then revealed as a hoax. But news from more credible sources show evidence of real usage of bluetooth for this purpose in (generally concurred) public places.

And it's definitely common practive in some parts of the word:

-- Custodians of morality must reckon with cellphones (Saudi Arabia and the Gulf states)

-- Phone technology aids UAE dating

-- Mobile Phone Is Matchmaker in Singapore

emily | 5:26 PM | permalink

February 3, 2006

The Joy of Text

joyofotext.jpg Virgin Mobile Canada is excited to reveal its text survey results and launch its latest text aid - a new bilingual book entitled The Joy Of Text, Your Guide to a More Satisfying Text Life.

Some of the (enlightening) figures from the study:

-- 50 per cent of all youth surveyed admitted they've flirted via text
-- 25 per cent of Canadian youth think it's okay to have text sex
-- 69 per cent text in bed
-- 50 per cent text from the bathroom

In a media briefing held today at Virgin Mobile's offices, text kitten and relationship expert Pamela Anderson unveiled and signed the first Joy of Text book, and talked about her love of text, how much she does it, where she likes to do it, who she does it with.

[Press release]

emily | 7:19 PM | permalink

January 19, 2006

Texting & Dating: Top-Ten Do's & Don'ts

textlfirt.gif Tegic Communications, maker of popular T9 Text Input software for cell phones, has teamed up with John Gray, author of best-seller Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus and AOL Love & Sex Coach, to offer the top-ten tips to help ensure a successful union of texting and dating in 2006. [Press Release]

For instance:

-- DO wait until at least the third date before you engage in "textual relations" with a new love interest.

-- DON'T read too much into whether he or she has (or hasn't!) signed off with X's and O's for kisses and hugs.

emily | 6:23 PM | permalink

January 12, 2006

SMS as evidence in divorce court

divorcepapers.gif According to IOL, text messaging are ending up in court as evidence of infidelity in about a third of divorce cases in Poland.

"More and more often people are attaching text messages found on their spouse's mobile telephones to their divorce papers," Judge Maria Taront told the Wednesday edition of Poland's Gazeta Wyborcza daily.

"Messages like: 'You gave me so much pleasure yesterday', 'I'm waiting for the next night', 'Darling, the alarm is off. she says, adding that faced with such strong evidence cheaters have little possibility to deny infidelity.

"This is usually enough to find them responsible for the marriage falling apart," she says.

... If the court is uncertain whether a racy text message is just a joke, judges request billing documents which can reveal telling patterns and the intensity of SMS contact.

Related:

-- Texting sparks affairs (UK)

-- Cell phones exposing more cheating spouses (Singapore)

-- Unfaithful Italians betrayed by text messaging

-- Text Messaging causes MP divorce in South Africa

emily | 7:44 AM | permalink

December 18, 2005

Lovers stab each other over SMS

Two teenage lovers stabbed each other in Pakistan's Karachi city after the girl refused to show her lover an SMS she received on her mobile telephone, reports the newindpress.com.

"The ‘Daily Times’ said the couple had told the police initially that cell phone snatchers attacked them in Korangi area while they were returning from the Sea View beach. However, police found after questioning them separately that they stabbed each other with sharp objects in anger. Both were said to be in stable condition.

In Pakistani society, friendship or outside of marriage relationships between males and females is uncommon and considered a taboo.

Women are even sometimes killed by their relatives for disgracing their family "honour" by marrying or having relationships with men of their choice."

emily | 10:57 AM | permalink

November 24, 2005

Phone text nails a rapist

A rapist was trapped when he sent his victim a text message saying sorry, according to The Sun.

"Mark Woodland, 38, met the woman through a text-dating agency. He left his wife and daughter and had a sexual relationship with the 21-year-old woman.

But Woodland, a coach driver, raped her when she tried to end their fling.

The next day he sent her a text saying: “I didn’t mean to rape you.”

Woodland, of Ilminster, Somerset, was convicted of rape and jailed for four years, nine months at Dorchester Crown Court."

Related story happened in 2004: - A rapist with Asperger syndrome apologized to his victim in the other room by SMS

emily | 5:09 PM | permalink

November 3, 2005

How cellphones may beat computers as a dating service

textdating.gif Cellphones are becoming devices not only for reaching people you know but for reaching people you don't know - yet. A must-read WSJ article on mobile dating (free access here).

..." Dating was a natural outgrowth of such communities, says David Friedensohn, chief executive officer of Upoc of New York, which has 40,000 texting communities. "We noticed that a large number of our users were devoted to flirting, dating and meeting people," he says. In July, Upoc launched its first dating service. Since then it has attracted about 25,000 subscribers, at $4.99 a week, he says.

Match.com, one of the largest online dating services, has offered such a service on cellphones since February 2003. Users can upload short profiles of themselves and search for matches by gender, age and geographic location by ZIP Codes, among other criteria. " ...

Above picture from text-dating.net

emily | 7:40 PM | permalink

October 26, 2005

Flirtomatic

flirtomatic-logo.jpg Flirtomatic, based in London, is a new mobile and web based flirting service that allows people to connect and meet, by matching their profile with others. Presently in beta test.

In their own words: Flirtomatic makes it quick and easy to see who is out there, send and receive flirty messages and chat live.

[via Cool Hunting]

emily | 6:42 PM | permalink

October 14, 2005

"Ur dumped": texting to end romance

Breaking up is supposed to be hard to do, but young Australian couples have found an easy solution - send a text message and move on, according to the AFP.

"Research shows young romantics are increasingly using SMS text messages to manage, and even end, their relationships.

Macquarie University researcher Natalie Robinson studied the texting habits of 100 young people aged 18-35 and found SMS messaging increased when relationships were beginning or going through a rocky period.

The clinical psychologist said she was surprised to find 15 percent of participants had dumped a partner via text messages."

emily | 8:38 AM | permalink

September 25, 2005

Call of the Wild: Find a mate with True Blue Love

trueblue.jpg True Blue Love is a mobile phone social networking experience, designed to explore the politics behind intimate phone-based relations.

Designed as a program for mobile phones; each participant enters into the program the characteristics of their ideal sexual mate, chosen from a series of preset selections.

While the program is running, every time another phone comes within range, a love metric is calculated which is a representation of how close the incoming person matches the participant's ideal mate. If the match is close, the phone will emit a raucous mating call that will be unique to that participant.

The concept behind the triggered mating calls is to attempt to undermine the silent technology of messaging and email with vocal communication that expresses the user's desires through a public broadcast, a broadcast that harks back to more primitive exchanges.

[via networked performance]

emily | 12:30 PM | permalink

September 6, 2005

Translating chat-up lines on the go

boytext.jpg Ttext2insure, a UK-based company that sells travel insurance via SMS, claims more than one in four UK adults have had a romantic fling with a non-English speaking person whilst abroad, reports Finextra.

"This research has been conducted to support the launch of the company's new translation service, which promises to translate a number of key words and phrases and text them to individual's handsets in a matter of seconds.

The service can translate into five key languages - French, Spanish, German, Italian and Dutch. Some of the chat-up lines include: 'you have beautiful eyes', 'would you like to have dinner with me', 'what would you do if I kissed you right now?' and - for those with an important deadline to meet - 'do you have a condom?'

emily | 4:13 PM | permalink

August 18, 2005

Texting 'boosts dating confidence'

The rise of mobile phone texting and emails has helped British people to be more confident in approaching members of the opposite sex, according to research.

Almost one in five of those asked said using new technology helped them make the first move in the dating game.

The statistic was one of a host of technology related facts featured in the Intel Digital Lifestyle Report, which quizzed 1,000 computer and mobile phone owners, between 18 and 65-years-old. [via Virgin.net]

emily | 9:00 AM | permalink

August 5, 2005

Phone technology aids UAE dating

_41345925_ahmed203.jpg As part of a series on young people in the Middle East, the BBC News website discovers how technology is aiding the secret liaisons of young men and women in the conservative culture of the United Arab Emirates.

... Among UAE nationals - as the minority of the UAE's residents that are not expatriates are called - it is generally considered impolite for a man to speak to a woman he is neither married nor related to in public.

Traditionally, a young man's first amorous approach to a woman is supposed to be a marriage proposal made by his parents to her parents.

But the cards, scraps of paper and mobile phone messages that pass from male to female are testament to the double existence of some young UAE nationals as they take their love lives into their own hands.

And bluetooth is proving particularly useful, enabling young men to send notes to girls within a 10 metre radius without knowing their phone number."

Related stories:

-- Girls go dating with their identity concealed in a burqa (India)

-- SMS is "the way to do it" in India

-- Custodians of morality must reckon with cellphones (Saudi Arabia and the Gulf states)

-- Mobile Phone Is Matchmaker in Singapore

emily | 10:30 AM | permalink

August 3, 2005

Soccer star silent on SMS pick-up routine

riise1005.jpg Norwegian international football star John Arne Riise was the center of attention in Norway's tabloid press after a revelation that he had sent the same text message pick-up line via mobile phone to a range of well-known women, reports Aftenposte.

"Riise, who is a fixture on Champions League winner Liverpool in England's Premier League, refused to comment after newspaper VG unfurled the details of the 24-year-old's telephone seduction technique.

VG revealed the names of at least ten celebrity women - singers, models and media personalities - who received the same flattering, if poorly written, message inviting them to a romantic dinner for two."

emily | 3:27 PM | permalink

July 30, 2005

Singles work on sex drive

The Advertiser has an article on Jam Texting, first first written up in 2002 - but hasn't made the papers in a while - which conducted from a car while waiting in traffic, enables a mobile user to text someone interesting-looking in a car nearby.

"Singles register their number plate and mobile details with the service provider and are given a number they can send their message to.

It is forwarded to the mobile phone of the object of their desire - if that person is also a member. If they are not a member, the message is stored and revealed to them later if they join?

emily | 8:06 AM | permalink

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