November 5, 2004
Phone Sex Is Better Than Porn
Regina Lynn, in her weekly erotic column, Sex Drive for Wired, looks into phone sex and report on "Midori, a sex educator based in San Francisco, of all places who believes we should all be using our mobile phones to spice up our sex lives.
"We may be dependent on our cell phones these days, but what do we talk about?" she asks. "We say, 'Hey, where are you, how's the party?'" Given our busy schedules and feelings of disconnectedness, she sees an opportunity to bring lovers closer together, talking in real time or leaving erotic messages throughout the day.
One of her favorite techniques is the erotic cliffhanger, where you figure out the maximum length allowed for a single message on your lover's phone. Call when you know he or she can't answer and start talking. "Go into detail," she says, describing what you'd like to do to them, right now or tomorrow or next week, "and then at exactly the right moment -- BEEEEP."
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